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Orland Park supervised parenting time attorney

Divorce can be a messy and emotional process, especially when children are involved. Understandably, parents often show a different side of themselves when their parental rights are on the line. The formulation of parenting time schedules is always done in the best interests of the child, and this often includes shared time with both parents. However, in some cases, both parents remaining in the child’s life can be dangerous and unhealthy for the child, warranting intervention from the Illinois court system. As difficult as this may be for the child and the parents, supervised visitation may be required for a parent to spend time with his or her child.

Supervised Parenting Time Situations

Supervised visitation is the court’s way of allowing a parent to remain in his or her child’s life while making sure that the child’s safety is a priority. In some cases, a parent may try to restrict their former partner’s relationship with the child by requesting supervised visitation requirements. To ensure that a child's relationship with a parent is not harmed because of the other parent's negative actions or emotions, the Illinois courts will only consider mandating supervised visitation in a select number of situations. These scenarios include:

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Oak Forest child relocation lawyer

Families relocate now more than ever before. The modern improvements in technology and transportation make it easier for families to move and keep in touch after relocating. Many divorced couples will choose to do this to help themselves move on from their previous marriage. However, while adults have the right to choose when and where they move, the court has a say in all relocation cases involving children. There are three common situations in which court approval may need to be obtained for child relocation: when a parent moves at the time of the divorce, when a parent moves after the divorce, and when an unwed parent chooses to relocate. Married or not, adults who share children together must get permission from the court if their planned move could potentially affect their existing child custody and parenting time agreements or their child's relationship with the other parent.

What Factors Will the Court Review?

When a parent petitions the court for permission to relocate, or when a parent seeks to prohibit their former partner from moving with their child, the court will determine whether the planned move is in the child's best interests. In most cases, a judge will seek to protect both parents’ rights to spend time with their child. For most children, having both parents in their lives is beneficial, and this idea can affect the court’s ruling on relocation. However, if a child has been exposed to domestic abuse, or if parents continue to argue regularly, relocation may be the best thing that will allow the child to flourish in a conflict-free environment.

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Oak Forest child support lawyer

When parents get a divorce, they will both continue to be responsible for providing for their child financially. The Illinois Marriage and Dissolution of Marriage Act includes regulations about when and how child support must be implemented into a custody arrangement. Most often, the noncustodial parent will be legally obligated to pay the custodial parent a particular amount. However, depending on several factors, including if parents share equal or near-equal amounts of parenting time, this may not always be the case. By working with an attorney, you can ensure that all the relevant factors are taken into account when calculating child support obligations.

What Factors Are Considered When Determining Child Support?

The amount of child support that a parent has to pay is based on a formula laid out in state law. This formula determines a Basic Support Obligation that is based on the number of children and the income earned by both parents. Each parent will contribute a percentage of this obligation, depending on the amount they contribute toward their combined income and, in some cases, the number of overnights the children spend with each parent every year.

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Orland Park Child Support Lawyer

Financial circumstances can change dramatically from the time a couple divorces through when their children turn 18 years old. One or both parents may get new jobs or become unemployed. Either parent may get a raise or take a pay cut. Any of these factors, along with numerous others, can affect the parents’ levels of responsibility for providing support for their children. 

In addition, something may happen that changes the needs of a child and leads to their care being either more or less expensive. Child support may be modified or even eliminated completely, depending on the circumstances.

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Tips for Protecting Children During Divorce

Cook County divorce lawyer parents childrenThe process of ending a marriage is rarely easy, but it can lead to a more positive situation for everyone involved, including divorcing spouses and their children. However, children will often experience a great deal of anxiety and stress during their parents’ divorce, so it is important for parents to do everything they can to protect them throughout the divorce process. Here are some tips for how to reduce the negative effects of divorce on children:

  • Avoid conflict in front of children - When a marriage breaks down, it can be hard for spouses to be civil to each other. However, it is important to avoid arguing in your children’s presence, since this can make the process more difficult for them. Work to resolve your differences in a respectful manner without involving your children in any way.
  • Work together with your ex-spouse - While cooperation with your ex will likely be difficult, you will need to be able to work together as co-parents in raising your children. Ideally, you should both inform your children of the divorce together after agreeing on what you plan to say, and you should establish ground rules that both of you will follow during your respective parenting time.
  • Offer reassurance - Children often feel that they are to blame for their parents’ divorce, so it is important to make sure they understand that it is not their fault and that both you and your ex-spouse will always love them and be a part of their lives. Take some time before introducing a new love interest to them, since additional changes to their lives can lead to stress and uncertainty.
  • See a therapist - Avoid talking to your children about the reasons for divorce, complaining to them about the other parent, or relying on them for emotional support. Instead, visit a therapist to discuss your feelings. Children may also benefit from seeing a counselor who can help them work through their emotions and learn how to adjust to the changes in their lives.
  • Consider mediation - Trying to resolve divorce disputes in court can be costly and stressful for everyone involved, including children. Divorce mediation allows couples to address their legal concerns in an amicable, cooperative manner, establishing methods for working together as they continue to raise their children in the years to come after their divorce.

Contact a Palos Heights Divorce Attorney

If you are considering divorce, or if you need help resolving issues related to your children as you work to reach a divorce settlement, the attorneys of Anderson and Associates, P.C. can provide you with the representation you need. Contact an Orland Park divorce lawyer today by calling 708-226-9904 to arrange a free consultation.

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