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Tips for Protecting Children During Divorce

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Cook County divorce lawyer parents childrenThe process of ending a marriage is rarely easy, but it can lead to a more positive situation for everyone involved, including divorcing spouses and their children. However, children will often experience a great deal of anxiety and stress during their parents’ divorce, so it is important for parents to do everything they can to protect them throughout the divorce process. Here are some tips for how to reduce the negative effects of divorce on children:

  • Avoid conflict in front of children - When a marriage breaks down, it can be hard for spouses to be civil to each other. However, it is important to avoid arguing in your children’s presence, since this can make the process more difficult for them. Work to resolve your differences in a respectful manner without involving your children in any way.
  • Work together with your ex-spouse - While cooperation with your ex will likely be difficult, you will need to be able to work together as co-parents in raising your children. Ideally, you should both inform your children of the divorce together after agreeing on what you plan to say, and you should establish ground rules that both of you will follow during your respective parenting time.
  • Offer reassurance - Children often feel that they are to blame for their parents’ divorce, so it is important to make sure they understand that it is not their fault and that both you and your ex-spouse will always love them and be a part of their lives. Take some time before introducing a new love interest to them, since additional changes to their lives can lead to stress and uncertainty.
  • See a therapist - Avoid talking to your children about the reasons for divorce, complaining to them about the other parent, or relying on them for emotional support. Instead, visit a therapist to discuss your feelings. Children may also benefit from seeing a counselor who can help them work through their emotions and learn how to adjust to the changes in their lives.
  • Consider mediation - Trying to resolve divorce disputes in court can be costly and stressful for everyone involved, including children. Divorce mediation allows couples to address their legal concerns in an amicable, cooperative manner, establishing methods for working together as they continue to raise their children in the years to come after their divorce.

Contact a Palos Heights Divorce Attorney

If you are considering divorce, or if you need help resolving issues related to your children as you work to reach a divorce settlement, the attorneys of Anderson and Associates, P.C. can provide you with the representation you need. Contact an Orland Park divorce lawyer today by calling 708-226-9904 to arrange a free consultation.

Sources:

http://www.divorcemag.com/articles/5-ways-to-reduce-the-negative-effects-of-divorce-on-your-children

http://www.divorcemag.com/articles/ways-to-protect-your-children-from-parental-conflict-during-divorce

https://www.huffingtonpost.com/deborah-anderson-bialis/5-ways-to-protect-childre_b_4326799.html

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